In this video, I’m giving you a tip on the best way to become an energetic match for what you want to manifest. I discuss how to get into alignment with the vibrational frequency of what you want, so you become a magnet for your desires.
Watch the video on becoming a magnet for your desires:
Act as if
Put yourself in the situation of what you want to manifest. Test drive the car, go to the open house, try on the clothes or get coffee in the nice restaurant.
Start surrounding yourself with the situations, people, places and things of the lifestyle you desire.
“You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.” – Jim Rohn
We’ve all heard the Jim Rohn quote, “you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.”
It’s true. We become the average of everything around us. If you want to level up, start hanging around people who have already achieved what you want. Start window shopping for what you want. Start going places that make you feel like the highest version of yourself.
If you can start elevating your mind, you will begin to elevate your life.
But what if people don’t like it? What if my friends think I’m acting stuck up?
Don’t stay small to keep others comfortable. Unfortunately, the people closest to us will likely feel uneasy about this new and improved version of our life. This is typically for one of two reasons.
- They are afraid you will leave them behind and your up level makes them feel inadequate, uneasy and insecure of their own life choices. An example of this would be the friend that settled in life and tries to make you feel snobby or greedy for wanting more in life when really they’re just insecure of their own decisions and afraid you’ll leave them behind.
- They mean well and think they know what’s best for you. An example of this would be a parent that thinks going to college and getting a corporate job is the best path for you even though you know in your heart you want to start your own business.
In both of these scenarios, you can have compassion for the people interfering and send them love while respectfully telling them this is your life and you’re the one who gets to decide how you want to live it. We teach people how to treat us by what we tolerate. If you set boundaries, they’ll learn that their negativity and doubt needs to be left at the door when they pay you a visit.
Have fun with the manifestation process! It shouldn’t feel stressful or hard. If you’re feeling those emotions, it’s probably because you are attached to the outcome. Enjoy the journey. Think of it as a game. You get to make the rules. You’re able to choose the prize. Feel light and at ease trusting that the universe will deliver your desires because you’re perfectly aligned.